Are the children these days unusually swift at growing and perceiving stuff,
which the parents claim to have not known, when they were of the same age?
I have always heard men and women lament about the way the children
KNOW THINGS! And I wonder at times, are not these lamenting another way of
absolving oneself of the ‘dirty’ OMG content, at their proper ages.
We would naturally feel surprised seeing a two year old on the
touchpad. The gadgets we came across during our teens or twenties are like
rattle or teether to the toddlers. Each generation is definitely smarter than
the previous, is what I have heard. But I really don’t know, and I wonder how
it can be so. Are these kids really more intelligent than their parents and
grandparents or is it just that having access to gadgets brings in that
familiarity element enabling them to use all of these with a natural fling?
So so so , if a kid speaks about a crush/kiss or talks without delicacy
about such ‘forbidden matter’, why do the parents/elders panic as if they had
seen a Frankenstein! Did we not think of all these when we were their age? I
think we all knew imperfectly though, about all these and we had had that same
curiosity, that same feeling in us. But we were less open, and more of
pretenses. We seldom got a chance to be so open, because our
parents were different too. It is a happy way the parents let the children be
their friends and listen to their titter tatter a lot.
My son who is in standard one, told me that his friend likes two three
girls and how one little girl got envious when this little prince charming
danced with the other cindrella. He told me “Amma, these girls are like the
South Poles which repel and Raja is their North Pole”. I was super glad at his
use of magnets know how, for drawing similes and joined in the laughter. In
between that curious mom in me, asked casually, “Monu, which girl do you like
(at age seven)?” He replied sweetly, “I like only one, My Teacher”. Oops!
Great! Yes, he is innocent! Gosh! Its Okay, I inhaled deep and rolled with him
again tickling him.
By the way, he asked me, “Amma, how your DNA joined with Acha’s ?” EEEEK!
What do I tell a seven year old, about
fertilization and zygote and how Acha’s and Amma’s DNAs ‘join’. I put it on
God. He said that’s fine, “but still how God could join them, they are inside
your cells, na?”. I replied that he would learn all that in high school. I
pleaded memory lapse about my science lessons, promised to read and refresh my
memory and tell him later. When will
that later come again, I am keeping
my fingers crossed!
On an after thought:
My biology teacher in 10th std, was explaining that a hen's unfertilized eggs would not hatch.. She said - if suppose in your house there is a hen , but no cock, then..... I interrupted: Teacher what if my neighbour has one?
There is a saying in Malayalam: "Mathan Kuthiyaal Kumbalam Mulaykkumo", meaning , if you plant pumpkin will ash gourd germinate?"
On an after thought:
My biology teacher in 10th std, was explaining that a hen's unfertilized eggs would not hatch.. She said - if suppose in your house there is a hen , but no cock, then..... I interrupted: Teacher what if my neighbour has one?
There is a saying in Malayalam: "Mathan Kuthiyaal Kumbalam Mulaykkumo", meaning , if you plant pumpkin will ash gourd germinate?"
Hahahaha what if a neighbour has one :)
ReplyDeleteI think we did explore certain ideas in younger age, we just did not know how and where to find the information....
Kids are certainly overtly exposed these days...
much love sweetheart <3
I really meant the bird ..lol
DeleteThanx dear
The last lines had me in splits. :D
ReplyDeleteI agree with Chintan. you were as inquisitive, i was as inquisitive, only we did not have much sources of information. now things are very advanced, and kids certainly know much more than they should at their age!
who can set standards, after all!
DeleteThanx Diksh
lol.. this was totally an awkward situation ;) my mom never asked any such and neither did i ask her... new generation you see , i learnt all by myself...
ReplyDeletethe new generation has internet and peers at its disposable for explaining them the situations and stuff..
back then life was very closed i believe...
but one thing i must say no generation is smarter than its predecessors... yeah might be well informed about stuff but certainly not smarter...
fact is my dad is way far smarter than me ;);)
I hope our kids say that too about us
Deletethanx sourabh
I love your posts, Pygma! This one had be giggling lots! I definitely think that each generation produces children who seem to grow up faster, in terms of knowing 'the facts of life' at an earlier age. Too fast, I think, but this is life. As for being smarter, I have to agree with Sourabh. They may be more advanced in operating the 'techie toys' BUT not as smart in other areas that matter the most. Love :)
ReplyDeleteThank You for all that support dear Fiona
DeleteEven I think so, <3
I have read Grace for Gayle's blog 'Having the talk" very recently,which was very similar to the your topic. I found it very interesting - d way she manages those questions..lets invent more tricky nd satisfying answers for the curious juniors.. well written.
ReplyDeleteIt is a lovely blog.. Nice of you to share it, I would be there too
DeleteThank you dear
Can you believe that I dint know the details of zygote formation till I was in class 12th. I mean I studied it in 10th in Biology, but the whole idea of how it could actually happen, repulsed me so much at that tender age, that I rather believed that once you put vermilion on your head, it happens :)
ReplyDeleteDoesnt matter, now you know ,na ;)
DeleteLol
Thanks :)
hahahahahha...kids r unpredictable...thank god nowadays my son stopped asking such questions instead teaching me with new lessons..:)..Lovely pygma..hugs..
ReplyDeletehahhaahaha, so I ve to learn after this.. hmmmm not bad
Deletei am open to learning
Love and hugs my suma
well, but still i think from generation to another generation, kids are getting smarter (or may be knowing more things) that did the previous generation at same age... think like 20 years from now, the kids will be experts in using the gadgets of the time and we, the elders would just stare at them blankly :) one change may be that in the old times when elders wouldnt tell anything, then there was little chance that one could learn it from somewhere else, but now thanks to Mr. Google, one just has to type anything and it comes with pictures, articles, even videos!!!
ReplyDeleteIs expertise in gadgets, the gauge to measure intelligence
DeleteI doubt, I dont know rather:)
Thank You Israr
I doubt with you Pygma...."Is expertise in gadgets, the gauge to measure intelligence?"....I think the gadgets kind of filling the younger minds with stuffs which to an extend retards the proper flourishing of intelligence.....like a "savage torpor"(Wordsworth used that phrase centuries before) youth even loses their discriminatory powers to distinguish the subtle nuances of realities and observation! Anyways everything have two sides....the proper controlled use and awareness will be the only remedy:)
DeleteHA HA...That's really really interesting!And you have got a smart intelligent boy! Well then....please watch this hilarious yet TED Talk....here is the link....
ReplyDeletehttp://www.ted.com/talks/julia_sweeney_has_the_talk.html
I bet it would interest you.....the same topic you have dealt here.....strange how kids now a days are so open and curious!
And dear....I was preparing to present a paper in a seminar on media studies and my topic is the impact of social networking and all kinds of other gadgets on current youth and culture with special focus on children's perspective! And there you are with the same thought here:) Great Pygma:)
Wow that was amazing ,, THE TALK.. Julia Sweeney..
ReplyDeleteThanks a million for sharing the link..
I have ideas now, as to how to go about logically and correctly
and the best tips is, haha never say anything more than what the child asks for.. will oblige!
And I am pleasantly surprised by the similarity of our thought process .. I will do from here more of abracadabra... zooooooom :)
haha ...."Mathan Kuthiyaal Kumbalam Mulaykkumo"...its really interesting..!!
ReplyDeletesidhu where have u been?
DeleteThanks:)
hahha.... realy pygma.. kids are unpredictable...... excellent one and i belive teachers arround the globe are like minded!!.... ind saying "mathan kuthiyal kumbalam mulakkumo..." lol.... good one as usual
ReplyDeletethanks dasan
Deleteavan arinjaal enne kollum :)
kidu subject---guess all parents have to face such questions someday---i better not answer the mathan kutthiyal question---the devil in me would pop up----lol------@ nasnin ted talk superb---lol---keep writing twinnnn---u rockkkkkkkkk!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteyyoooo njan onnum paranjilleeeee
Deletelove you devil:)
nasnin is a darling, i enjoyed it too
Haha...you were a mischievous child...you know I often think of the same justifications, probably coz I as a child was very curious and got to the bottom of things faster-however distorted were my explanations and conclusions, there was always a shocking food for thought!
ReplyDeletewe should let kids be-although the birds n bees talk with my daughter in sometime in the future leaves me a tad nervous too:-)
:D what if the neighbour has one? hahhaha
ReplyDeletegooood one pygma, love and regards.
Hahaha! I dread those 'DNA talks' already. But, as they say, it's better to let these talks happen than get shocked later :P
ReplyDeleteI read in a mag somewhere, someone's personal experience, where her daughter asks her if she could kiss her friend(boy). Mother says, "No, you'll get pimples if you did, or if he kissed you." Next day, daughter returns saying "Mom, I kissed him and see, I got no pimples" :O
Hahahahaha!
haha..
ReplyDeletelittle innocent curious children..
your kid is very smart..
ReplyDeletehhehehehheeh DNA!!!!
ReplyDeleteBtw he is one intelligent kid!! I was the one who used to cler my lil brothers doubt..I rarely cleared it with the correct answers though :/
LOL...they ask really tough questions...I am waiting for my girl to speak....:)
ReplyDeletebut i do think kids now are smarter because they get exposed to a lot of things too early...it helps their brains to develop...earlier people used to underestimate them.